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«The Sacred Ar t o f Fisting By Larry R. Shockey Practical tips & considerations for men who engage in anal fisting Preface O n St. Valentine’s Day ...»

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The Sacred Ar t o f

Fisting

By Larry R. Shockey

Practical tips & considerations for men

who engage in anal fisting

Preface

O

n St. Valentine’s Day 2004, my colon was ruptured during

a fisting scene. The injury and resulting four surgeries

resulted in 30 days hospitalization over the course of the

next eighteen months, and over $300,000 in medical bills which,

thankfully, were covered by insurance. What insurance did not

cover was the loss of income and the emotional devastation

which resulted.

During my recovery, I realized that I was not alone. There were many others out there who either were, had been, could or would be in my shoes for the same reasons. I was determined to regain my health and to get back to enjoying my beloved activity, but with a new set of eyes and a deeper understanding of the risks, as well as of the safety precautions which could be followed.

Not wanting others to follow my footsteps, I began teaching, giving programs on safer fisting techniques, including a section on fisting-under-the-influence. Because there was so much material to cover, I developed a handout which started out as front and back of a single page. That handout has developed into this booklet. Although geared toward the curious or novice fister, I believe there is something in these pages for everyone.

Much gratitude is due all those who have encouraged and supported these efforts–those who cared for me when I was recovering from my injuries, all of the men who attend the parties, who come to the programs, or read these pages. But none of this could be possible without the loving support of my partner, Loy, who is always there beside (and sometimes behind) me.

I am also very grateful to my fisting mentor who, through much patience, escorted me into the world of fisting play many years ago. Since that exquisite evening, in addition to the many skilled tops and bottoms I have played with, I have been privileged to play with many novice tops and bottoms, educating them on the skills necessary to accomplish a successful scene.

– Larry Shockey San Francisco, February 2009 This booklet has been printed through a generous grant from STOP AIDS Project www.stopaids.org

TH E SA C R E D A R T O F FI STI N G

Table of Contents Getting Started Is Fisting Safe?

Anatomy of the Colon

Supplies

Choosing Your Lube

To Glove or Not to Glove

Preparing for Play Your Diet

Cleaning Out

Creating Head Space: The Body-Mind Connection

Headspace During Play

During the Scene

Hands Off Your Dick, Mister!

Know Before You Go

Seeing Red

Go Slowly

Concluding the Scene and Aftercare

Disinfecting Your Play Space: Coming Clean

Soft Surfaces

“Hard” Surfaces

A Few Words about “Enhancements”

What You Should Know about HIV, Hepatitis, MRSA and Syphilis HIV

Hepatitis A, B, and C

MRSA

Syphilis

Resources:

DISCLAIMER This booklet was prepared in its entirety by the author as a teaching aid for those wishing to learn more about the art of fisting, including risk and safety issues as well as practical tips, precautions and advice. For this handout, he has drawn on his years of experience in fisting as well as the resources referenced at the end of this booklet. There are many schools of thought when it comes to fisting. The viewpoint presented in this booklet is but one of them. The reader is encouraged not to rely solely on this booklet if he is venturing into fisting for the first time. The foregoing should not be considered to be medical advice. Before engaging in any risky sexual behavior, he recommends that you consult your physician about potential health risks, precautions, and preventative measures.

TO REQUEST PERMISSION FOR REPRINTS OF THIS BOOKLET, PLEASE CONTACT

LARRY R. SHOCKEY AT: info@handballheaven.com.

GETTIN G STA R T E D

Is fisting safe?

First off, any sexual activity carries a risk of transmission of HIV and STDS. However, fisting is, in my opinion, one of the safest forms of sex–if you follow proper guidelines.

The colon is lined with millions of tiny capillaries, which are extremely close to the surface of the intestine. They are extremely susceptible to bleeding during play. Overly rambunctious play, sharp fingernails or an inexperienced top can and do increase the likelihood of bleeding.

Once the colon wall is ruptured, fecal matter (and it doesn’t matter how well you’ve cleaned out) gets dumped into the abdominal cavity resulting in the beginning of what will become a fatal infection if not treated quickly. Should this happen, get to the nearest emergency room as soon as possible–at least within a couple of hours. A simple x-ray will either confirm or rule out a tear in your colon.

Symptoms of a rupture (meaning a hole in your colon and not just a scratch on the surface) include: upset stomach or queasiness, cold sweat, clamminess, an extended abdomen (similar to bloating) and lightheadedness or feeling faint. You might expect to see signs of rectal bleeding, but that doesn’t always happen and the absence of that should not put your mind at ease.





The initial surgery involves dissecting the colon to bypass the rupture to allow it to heal. This means that you’ll be wearing a colostomy bag for about 11 weeks. After that, you’ll return to the hospital for a second surgery during which the doctor will reconnect the colon and remove the colostomy bag. So be careful!

There is a risk of hepatitis A, B and C infection, as well as for HIV and syphilis. For a discussion on transmission and prevention see the information at the end of this booklet.

ANAT OM Y C OL ON.

OF THE When you eat, food travels down into your stomach where the absorption process begins. It then travels through your small intestine, and into the large intestine, first into the ascending colon (on the right side), up into the transverse colon (which runs along the top), down into the descending colon (on the left side), and finally into the Sigmoid colon.

The Sigmoid colon then holds bile until there’s enough to push it into the rectum, and we have a bowel movement.

Going the other direction (which is what we’re all about here), first you find the sphincter. This is an elastic muscle, which expands to allow us to have a bowel movement. It also expands to accommodate a dick or a toy or a hand. The first cavity we encounter is the rectum, which varies in size from person to person. The next opening, fisters call the “second sphincter.” It is not really a sphincter at all (according to my surgeon).

Rather, it is a rigid muscular opening, which leads to the Sigmoid colon.

Unlike the sphincter at the rectum, this rigid muscle doesn’t give easily and must be coaxed into relaxing. It’s why a really big dick or a toy may be difficult to take as deeply as we’d like.

Supplies:

Nail clippers ! Gloves ! Emery boards ! Paper towels Disposable tubs for lube ! Newspapers/floor covering Hand sanitizer ! Masking Tape ! Trash bags Permanent Marker ! Dawn Dishwashing Liquid Simple Green cleaner ! Bleach 10% solution What’s All This Stuff For? Nail clippers and emery boards are for trimming nails. Paper towels for wiping hands and butts and generally cleaning up messes. Newspapers or some sort of pads are used to protect the flooring and to help prevent slipping. Soapless hand sanitizer is used with or without gloves to further clean hands and arms. Trash bags, because you’ll make lots of trash. Dawn for cleaning your body and Simple Green for cleaning up other surfaces.

Disposable tubs, masking tape and permanent markers?? Probably some of the most important supplies you can have on hand. Why?

Because you NEVER share lube. Let’s say you are using Crisco and you’ve bought the standard size can for your little party so everyone will have plenty of lube. NOTHING but a clean spoon should ever go into that can and nothing should touch the spoon other than the Crisco or a clean paper towel. The spoon dips into the Crisco can and dispenses lube into the individual disposable tubs. Put a strip of masking tape on the tub and use the marker to write your name on it. That’s YOUR lube– the lube that others will dip into to use on you, not for you to use on other people. Using the same disposable tub of lube to grease up several other people results in cross-contamination, which is something you want to avoid. If you run out of lube, get a clean tub to dispense it into.

Where To Fist. A sling is the most common platform for fisting, but let’s face it, not everyone has one, and there aren’t a lot of sex clubs anymore where it’s really conducive to fist. So what to do if you don’t have a sling?

Where can you fist? A rope or a leather strap attached to ankle restraints and run under the bottom’s shoulders works equally as well. As far as positions go, use your imagination.

Just remember that if you’re going to be in your living room, you need to cover the carpet, your couch, chairs, etc with plastic to prevent lube from getting on them or you’ll be living with the stains and the smell for a long, long time. Same thing goes for your bed.

Choosing your lube.

What kind of lube, or mixtures of different lubes, is a matter of personal preference. You’ll decide what works best for you after experimentation.

Personally, I like a blend of Safeway brand shortening and J-Lube or JPax, but the Elbow Grease with Cloves is nice too.

" Slam Dunk. A great choice. Comes in scented and unscented and linens clean up easily using mild soap and warm water.

" Shaft. A relatively new product from Mr. S Leather. It’s odorless, is water soluble (meaning easy cleanups) and it’s very slippery. I’ve used it and like it, and I’ve heard good reports from others.

" Crisco. Comes in cans and in single serving, foil wrapped bars. (If you don’t mind smelling like you’ve been baking cookies all day.) " Grocery store brand shortening. Just as slick as Crisco without having to smell like a bakery.

" Elbow Grease (Plain or with Clove Oil) " J-Lube. Can be a little messy and is a definite slipping hazard if it gets onto a solid flooring surface such as finished concrete, tile, or wood.

BE CAREFUL. For J-Lube recipes, see the Resources section.

Mixing tip: Get one of those protein drink shakers from your vitamin store. They have a grate in the lid that facilitates mixing the J-Lube and water!

" J Pax. Yup the veterinarians are up to it again! Much like J-Lube, but comes with a bottle that’s just the right size and little single serving packets. Just empty the packet or packets to desired consistency, into the bottle, fill it with water and shake it until all the powder has dissolved.

My only criticism is that the bottle could be just a little bigger to facilitate mixing the powder. The same use precautions for J-Lube apply. It’s slick!

To glove or not to glove?

From a strictly safer sex standpoint, you should always wear gloves when you top, and you should insist that your top wear gloves. From a harm prevention standpoint, here are some tips and pointers, as some prefer to fist or be fisted without gloves.

If you are not going to use gloves, tops should make certain that: 1) fingernails are clipped and filed almost to the point of non-existence. You can tell if your nails are short and smooth enough by running your tongue over them. If you feel sharp edges, get back to the emery board; and,

2) Make sure that the skin on your hands, fingers and forearms is completely in tact. If you have a recent scratch, cut, or even a hangnail, you should wear gloves. Unbroken skin is a barrier to HIV and Hepatitis.

Any breaks in the skin make the risk of transmission much higher. To check for cuts, thoroughly “wash” all pertinent areas of your hands and arms with hand sanitizer (not soap). There is enough alcohol in the sanitizer that if you have a cut, you’ll know it. Glove up.

The following kinds of gloves are available at any Walgreens or Rite Aid or other drug store as well as those warehouse discount stores. To find “opera” length, you’ll have to go to a specialty store.

" Nitrile. Two thumbs up. They have become readily available in recent months. They used to be an atrocious color, and one-size-fits-all, but can now be found in ivory and black in small, medium and large. They fit very snugly and don’t tend to roll, wrinkle or bunch like latex. Also there is much more tactile feeling with them.

" Latex. Readily available. Come in three sizes: small, medium and large. Good idea to have one of each available.

" Vinyl. I’ve used them a few times. Don’t like them, but will work in a pinch.

REMEMBER: The reason you are using gloves is to protect both the bottom and the top from harm. Your hands (or your gloved hands) are only as clean and sanitary as the last thing they have touched. The last thing you should do before touching a bottom’s butt is to sanitize your hands and to put on gloves. I’ve seen lots of tops glove up, put the bottom’s feet into the stirrups, adjust the chains, arrange the papers on the floor, and then reach for the lube. NO! NO! NO! I’ve even had tops drop a glove on the floor and bend down to retrieve it to put it on. NO!

Gloves are cheap. It’s easy to forget. Just throw away the contaminated glove and get a clean one.

PR E P A R I N G F O R P L A YYour Diet.

Eat very lightly the day before. Vegetables move through your system in about 12 - 18 hours. Meat takes about 24 hours. This is what you’re going to be dealing with on play day. The day of, consider skipping breakfast. Have a light lunch consisting of mostly proteins. For dinner have some carbohydrates such as pasta or rice, as you’ll need some energy to get you through the evening. Have some munchies, including yogurt to replace digestive microbes, for after-play relaxation with your buddies. It’s a great way to relax and debrief.

Cleaning Out.



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